Perfectly Norman (Big Bright Feelings series)

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Perfectly Norman  (Big Bright Feelings series)

Norman had always been perfectly normal. That was until the day he grew a pair of wings! Norman is very surprised to have wings suddenly - and he has the most fun ever trying them out high in the sky. But then he has to go in for dinner. What will his parents think? What will everyone else think? Norman feels the safest plan is to cover his wings with a big coat. But hiding the thing that makes you different proves tricky and upsetting. Can Norman ever truly be himself? A poignant yet uplifting story about individuality, with stunning artwork in a striking minimal palette from the author/illustrator of Herman's Letter. Fans of Oliver Jeffers and Benj Davies will love it.--from the publisher

32 pages       978-1408880975  Ages 4-8

Keywords: being yourself, self acceptance, accepting others, family, identity, finding yourself, being unique, being different, fears, secrets, 4 year old, 5 year old, 6 year old, 7 year old, 8 year old

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Norman had always been normal... perfectly normal.  Until one day he grew a pair of wings.

Norman had imagined getting taller and eventually growing a beard but growing a pair of wings? No, he never imagined that.  He tested them out.  Gave them a flap or two to see what they could do and where they might take him.  Then he had to go in for dinner.

This is when it occurred to Norman that he really wasn't sure what his parents would think of his wings.  Would they accept them?  Would they appreciate them?  He wasn't sure at all.  So he hid them.

Beautiful story that will resonate with every child who feels he/she/they are different or have something about them they have to hide.  So great to have a story that will honor them and help them bring those wings out into the light.

Recommended by:  Barb Langridge, abookandahug.com

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Norman had always been perfectly normal. That was until the day he grew a pair of wings! 

He had imagined growing taller or even growing a beard like his dad, but not growing  a pair of wings!

Norman is very surprised to have wings suddenly – and he has the most fun ever trying them out high in the sky. But then he has to go in for dinner. What will his parents think? What will everyone else think? Norman feels the safest plan is to cover his wings with a big coat.

But hiding the thing that makes you different can prove tricky and upsetting. The coat became a burden, even an embarrassment and Norman began to resent the wings until he realised it was the coat making him unhappy, not the wings. After all, no-one else has wings, so why him? Can he find the courage to discard the coat? What does he discover when he does?

In this poignant story about being different, Percival has set the text against striking backgrounds of various shades of grey depicting normal and dull while giving Norman bright colour and light so that his feelings of being unique are highlighted physically as well as emotionally. He has also chosen to depict a diversity of characters, each unique in their own way and each of whom accept Norman as normal, so really, what does "normal' mean? What do Norman's wings represent - could it be he has come to terms with his gender identity and regardless of the coat, he can now use the wings to be true to himself?  

For a wonderful part of their lives, children don't see difference and they just love who they are but then awareness starts to develop and they start to see themselves with new and often unkind eyes.  They want nothing more than to be the same as their peers, to not stand out, to be normal and anything that makes them unique, whether it is skin colour, wearing spectacles, being an only child or growing a set of wings, becomes a burden that they would rather not carry. But the freedom when the coat is shed... 

Accepting and celebrating who we are and what we are, especially those things that make us special and unique is so important for our mental health and at last, we are starting to understand that the self-talk and messages we give ourselves as we interpret our interactions and experiences as a child can have an incredible impact on the well-being of our older selves. The more children can encounter books like Perfectly Norman and discuss them so they understand that there is no 'normal' or "perfect" the healthier they will be.  It is our responsibility as teacher librarians, teachers and other significant adults in their lives to make sure they meet lots of Normans and not only grow to love their own wings but to use them to fly!

Recommended by:  Barbara Braxton, Teacher Librarian  New South Wales  AUSTRALIA

See more of her recommendations:

500 Hats http://500hats.edublogs.org/

The Bottom Shelf http://thebottomshelf.edublogs.org/

Storybook Cushions http:// bit.ly/storybook_cushions

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